Here’s an article that proposes five possible reasons for why you might still be single. It’s non-threatening even though it’s challenging stuff.
Here’s another article entitled “Dump Your Dream Girl” about letting go of your unattainable expectations for your future spouse. Extremely well-written, thought-provoking, and also non-threatening.
There’s a lot of garbage out there that points fingers at you for being the reason you’re still single but I like the way these two authors dealt with heavy subjects with such grace.